rip this off from one of my fren's blog.
"its bad when somebody set his/her footprints in ur live and den set off ur path to another's to pursue his/her own future. its impossible fer 2 good frns to stay as good forever. it hurts when u care abt smone but he/she does not care abt u as much. it hurts when u see ur gd frn being gd frns with others. and when u dun even dare to admit u are jealous, u will try everything to spite the person.. which eventually leads to a quarrel. isnt it bad tt almost all quarrels are triggered from jealousy? so damn stupid. and the other party juz cant seem to realise anithing and in the end, u are always da fault of everything. why not juz, once and for all, let this frnship cease, to prevent ani more injuries to de heart. Yes time heals, but how many times can it heal? hundreds? thousands? so impossible. even if it heals, there's still the scars left behind, each reminding u of every single event tt happened b4. sad ones. to prevent injuries, juz let urself be hurt once, terribly, break it off, and in da future, there's no more such stuff.. nobody can hurt u ani more. but, can u do that? even if u try to get everything off ur mind, tt person will come back. and the worst is, he/she tries to come into ur life again. and once tt happens, u will get hurt again. so why let him/her does wad she wans? juz block it off and u will be freed. isnt tt so?
pple juz cant understand how much they are hurting u. they sae they do, but after a lil while, dey start stabbing u again. bitter sweet, u mite call it, but its terrible. they juz dun even haf da pig brains to understand. so, dun ever give all out in a frn/relationship. in the end, u urself are the onli one getting hurt. so why bother. its not smth tt one can control. but u cud at least try."
wow. this is so true. sounds familiar to me. something like wat i told my fren last nite. ahhh. :X
eh, sj, u said i'm so negative abt having a best fren. no la. not negative. its i juz dun believe. haha.
goin out! :)